I have been busy sleeping, eating, watching American Idol and HOUSE, and the movie "Inside Man"...too busy to blog. Okay, now I'm back and the topic of my post today is in reference to Kaili's sister Shalane's blog about whether you need a man to "complete you". I think this topic is pretty black and white. Either you agree or disagree. I disagree. Just the other night I heard someone on TV describe a relationship as "ONE PLUS ONE EQUALS TWO, NOT A HALF PLUS A HALF EQUALS A WHOLE". I think this is the perfect description for a healthy relationship!!! If you feel incomplete as an individual, and complete because of someone else...you have issues. A secure, happy person shouldn't feel less of a person because they aren't part of a couple. Soli...I salut you for going out dancing alone...!!!